Caiden is a super fun and funny kid. We are so lucky to have him. He is 2 months shy of being 4. He likes to tell people he is 7, and totally serious about it. I'm not sure why he chose that age.
He came running to me one day and super worried saying, "I hurt my pinky promise!" That wasn't the last time he called his pinky that.
When he is truly tired, he can sleep anywhere. He got that from the Lee side, for sure.
At Waffle House:
Server: How are you?
Caiden (very excitedly): I am Caiden, and this is my friend Addysin!
A couple weeks ago Caiden fell and got a black eye. It wasn't very bad, but before we went to church I told him that people might ask him what happened and he needed to tell them that he fell, just to keep it simple. He doesn't have a huge vocabulary and doesn't speak very clear. I felt like a bad person trying to brainwash my child. I made him practice saying, "I fell." We were at church for an hour before somebody talked to him and says, "How are you?" Caiden explodes (he had been waiting for his big moment), "I fell and hurt my eye." The women couldn't understand him and just smiled. I started laughing.
Every time Jocelyn wakes up from a nap or in the morning, Caiden gasps and replies, "Cuties awake!!!" He really loves her.
Let me tell you what he doesn't love. Spit up. The first time he saw her breast feeding, he literally started gagging. Then a couple minutes later she spit up. He dry heaved. I laughed when I noticed his blood shot eyes and realized he wasn't joking. He has always gagged at her spit up, but never threw up. Thank goodness because he has the WORST gag reflex I have ever seen. I have cleaned up my share of throw up from him and its not because of an upset stomach. I thought Chris was bad. So I was feeding Jocelyn her first baby food, butternut squash. Like all babies trying to figure out how to swallow, the spoonful of food would go in her mouth and then the food would ooze back out and down her chin. Caiden thought it was SOOOO funny! The super funny part was that he was gagging and laughing harder than I have ever heard him. I decided I had to get this on camera because his laugh was so stinkin' cute! With one hand I am feeding Jocelyn, the other hand I am holding my iphone and recording. I would point the camera at Jocelyn while I put food in her mouth, then point it at Caiden to see him rolling laughing. I'm not really paying attention to him because I'm doing like 5 things at once. I go back and forth a couple of times and then the next time I put the camera on him he is vomiting!!! He felt so bad and kept saying "Sorry, Mom! Sorry, Mom!" Poor kid. Jocelyn isn't very interested in eating solid food and honestly I hate feeding babies food because its such a pain. I have only fed her a couple of times since then and Caiden started gagging again so I made him leave the room.
Today I was trying to get Caiden to finish his apple sauce so I'm spooning it into his mouth while I'm holding Jocelyn. I decide to touch the spoon to her lip just so she tastes it. I absolutely did not put it in her mouth and he got so mad. Then I put that spoonful in his mouth. He hadn't thought about it until after he swallowed. I swear he thinks that Jocelyn is a disgusting little person. He swallowed the applesauce and then started gagging. I told him to go stand over the garbage because I knew what was coming. He tried fighting it off for a good 20 seconds, then just couldn't keep it down. Up came all of his applesauce. Awesome.
Caiden loves kisses, hugs, and affection but only when he's up for it (not all the time). He really dislikes it when people try to smother him with love. He likes to do that kind of stuff at "Hi" and "Goodbye". My mom loves when he gives her hugs around her leg. Since we have been gone for a month and a half, she says that is one thing she really misses. One time Addysin's friend, Taryn, was going home and gave Addysin a hug and kiss on the cheek. Addysin was pleasantly surprised. Caiden always has to hug friends as well when they go home. Taryn goes to kiss him on the cheek and Caiden wants it on the lips. He puckers up and she is trying to dodge his lips and get it on his cheek. After they go back and forth and she can see she cant get to his cheek, she just pats his cheek, giggles and leaves.
He really loves puzzles lately. I'm happy about that. Puzzles take a lot of focus and patience, which I didn't know he had.
He loves technology. Movies, TV shows, computer games, iphone games, youtube, netflix... it drives me nuts. Everytime I cant find him, he is on something. This is at the library during story time. He participated and was being good, then halfway through he asks me, "Is it over? Can I go play on the computer?"
He learns a lot from the games and most of the shows so I'd be lying if I said I hated those things. I just really hate that he will be having fun playing and then all of the sudden he gets his "craving" for TV and he is back on the couch. I've had to unplug the TV.
He loves making pizza and helping me make juice in our "juicer". He will even leave the TV when I ask him to help! Thats amazing because he doesn't leave the TV willingly very often.
Getting his hair and face blown at the bowling alley. This part was just as fun as the bowling part for him.
After waiting 3 days to use this floatie, it was now time! can you see the excitement?!
In a store one day, I hear him say, "Oh Uncle Tony! I love you Uncle Tony!" so I look to see who he is talking to and he is full on hugging this mannequin!
He is obsessed with hats. I love this because hats are cute and that means I don't have to cut or style his hair. Ever. Well, only on Sundays and that's when I realize I really need to cut it. He has the most adorable curls, especially here in Arkansas where there is some humidity. I have Chris rooting for me to continue to grow his hair out... and my mom is not here. She is the one who likes his hair short. The battle of my mother on one shoulder and husband on the other :) I like his hair long too, especially with his curls coming out of the bottom of his baseball cap. THE BEST PART IS that he sleeps with his hat on almost every night.
Man, could he be any cuter?!
(yes, if he would stop throwing up, drawing on himself, being blatantly disobedient and mean to Addysin, eat something besides bread and treats, stop stealing food from the kitchen, and stop saying "yes" when I ask him if he wants a spanking... just to name a few)